Time spent wondering
if you're doing it right, putting yourself down, going through all the "What Ifs" scenarios is time you cant get back.
Setting your goal of being of service and getting your first
customer is scary. Similarly getting your first product uploaded and placing your 'Buy Now' button onto a sales page.(Been there so know the feeling and emotions if your first time because not done it yet).
However when you think of where you would like to be in 365days from now or less, to achieve this goal just get on with it and complete a task today, another tomorrow and so on until there is no more steps to take on that task because your goal is accomplished.
All you can then do is await feedback.
However when you think of where you would like to be in 365days from now or less, to achieve this goal just get on with it and complete a task today, another tomorrow and so on until there is no more steps to take on that task because your goal is accomplished.
All you can then do is await feedback.
One of the biggest tragedies is;
the limitations we put on ourselves.
Trust your inner self to come through for you
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Sure things may go wrong when you put yourself out there (yes I did say may) and you will definitely be tested mentally and have to show yourself how much endurance power you have.
However knowing that you can tweak what you're doing along the way ( aka feedback) - what is your real excuse for not starting today?
Most people never reach their goals because of the self talk
going on in their own head or they allow another’s opinion to prevent them from starting. (I was guilty of this why was a slow starter). However, where does that get you though, watching on the sidelines whilst others achieve their goals and wish it were
you?
Very few people will support you in the beginning.
When near the finishing line is the only time when you’ll see that the universe backs you up and is cheering you on or the 'wait-and-see-what-happens' brigade decide to suddenly start to support you.
Suddenly people will come out of the woodwork to encourage
and inspire you to keep going especially if they are one step ahead of you. Others who suddenly start encouraging - who doubted you previously, may have other motivates - only they can confirm.
Of course never let a broke person suggest how you should design and live your life or what and how to create and produce your product. Also goes without saying to neither listen to their advice on how to structure your service fees or product starting price.
Of course never let a broke person suggest how you should design and live your life or what and how to create and produce your product. Also goes without saying to neither listen to their advice on how to structure your service fees or product starting price.
Realise that they are
speaking from their own experiences and all you do is politely tell them; "Thank you. Now let's see if my way of doing things 'works’ too".
After all money doesn’t care who’s hand it is in.
It really doesn’t.
With a broke person (when they get some) or with you, money really is neutral even when it changes hands in any transaction.
With a broke person (when they get some) or with you, money really is neutral even when it changes hands in any transaction.
That conclusion came
to me years ago when I started to take a real internal indepth look at my money
mindset.
- Where did my self doubt money belief come from?
- Why is it still with me when it comes to paying for something?
- Why are there certain price points I quiver and have a think about (thank you for pointing that out to me Mr Stuart Wilde) and there there's other price points I’m so cool, calm and collected when I hand over my cash?
The price is the price and either I pay or I don’t and the same goes for you and your customers.
I see people often knock themselves down with self limiting
beliefs with all the self talk they have going on in their head. and is reflected in their prices too.
The person you're now isn't the person you can be one year or more from now if you just get on with it.
One way round take some action after reading this is to remember a time that you were great and let that fuel you. You did complete the self doubt reflection exercises found under the chapter titled: Excuses: Self Doubt didn’t you?
Here are a few recommended books that can remind you that you are worthy of success.
Even though written in the 1960s there is a Nov 2015 updated and expanded revised version
available and is a book that defines the mind-body connection as
the foundation in succeeding in attaining your personal goals.
The above Amazon book link is for an older version or you can purchase the Nov 2015 edition.
The above Amazon book link is for an older version or you can purchase the Nov 2015 edition.
This book explains the overall workings of Quantum
Physics and how you really can achieve all that you desire. It also discusses and
shows, with exercises, the science of
attraction.
Find out more about it here.
Okay see you in my next email when will catch up again!
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